This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-25

  • New post: This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-18 http://t.co/bRO1mTeu #
  • My heart has grown 100 sizes. I love my children so much more than I could ever find the words to express. #blessed #
  • This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-18 http://t.co/6lzWbCIa #
  • Random Rachel factoid: my bladder holds at least 26 oz of fluid. The average is 20. #
  • Good morning! http://t.co/FTqGJdOo #
  • New post: 39 Weeks. And a baby. Wait, WHAT?! http://t.co/iNH4dXJs #
  • Piedmont Dietary makes really really delicious apple pie. I'm eating my second slice in two days. No more! #
  • New post: Welcome to the world, little one! http://t.co/eav9OtPl #
  • Welcome to the world, little one! http://t.co/hVfgIHGO #
  • I can't wait to get home to my Coley tomorrow. I have missed him so much! I need to give him some snuggles. #
  • Life Lesson #941 Don't get behind on your pain meds after major abdominal surgery. You will regret it. #
  • Happy Talk Like A Pirate Day! And happy due date, Cannon! #
  • Sleeping baby on my chest = pure joy. No greater feeling. #blessed #
  • Hee hee, I love hearing Brahms Lullaby over the intercom at the hospital. Welcome to the world, fresh new baby! #
  • Ready to go home! http://t.co/tchaW9Be #
  • Percoset Percoset, I love you, yes I doooooooo... Sorry, Tom Jones. #
  • I had forgotten how strange and wonderful it is to have a new baby at home. And how much I love my own bed. #
  • The dairy is officially open for business. #
  • At Cannon's first doctor appointment. He has been so good so far. #
  • Besides the squishy new baby, the best part about the past four days has been the complete absence of heartburn. #
  • I think I'm actually getting MORE sleep now that I don't get up to pee every hour. Cannon is a great little sleeper so far. #
  • I can't believe my life right now. Loving husband, two beautiful children, great job, great family. I am so richly and undeservedly blessed. #
  • This baby is the best burper I've ever known. Cole was hard to burp, but Cannon just lets 'em rip. #
  • My mother just Skyped with the dog. #blankstare #
  • My littlest angel is one week old today! This has been the fastest week ever. #
  • Lord, beer me strength. #
  • A certain 2-year old has had a very hectic week. His schedule is all out of whack and he hates life. I need my normal sweet Coley back. #
  • New post: http://t.co/74faROF4 #
  • Post Edited: One Week Old/Our Week So Far http://t.co/74faROF4 #
  • The child, he naps. http://t.co/Ppkwli3Y #
  • One Week Old/Our Week So Far http://t.co/OyEnPiJd #
  • Just had my first postpartum sneeze. It wasn't too bad. Last time I didn't sneeze for two weeks. #
  • Big kid is almost asleep. Might get a little uninterrupted football time in today. #
  • Clemson is turnt up today. #

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One Week Old/Our Week So Far

One Week Old!

Neither the baby nor the lighting would cooperate for these pictures, but no matter.  Cannon was not at all happy to be associated with this monkey.  Hopefully he will come around.  Our little bean sprout is a week old!  This has been the fastest week of my life, I think.  I barely blinked and a week had passed.  Besides being in the hospital Friday through Monday, all the grandparents were in town at various times to help with Cole, and we appreciate them all.  My mom left today, so this weekend will be our first weekend alone as our little family of four.  It was great having our parents in town this week because we don’t get to see them very much, but I’m ready for life to get back to normal and get Cole back on his regular schedule.  His potty training regressed a little (okay, a lot) with the chaos of the week, so we really need to get him back on track this weekend with a little 3DPT refresher.

Back to Cannon.  Sorry for the lack of updates.  We have been so busy loving on our boys that there hasn’t really been much time for blogging.  Cannon has been a dream baby.  He only cries when he is hungry or cold.  Doesn’t even mind it if he has a poopy diaper.  Luckily he makes enough noise whilst producing said poopy diaper that we know when he has one and can change it immediately.  Which he does not like because it makes him cold.  He has been a really good sleeper at night so far.  I feed him last around 10:00 and he wakes up around 2-2:30 ready to eat again, and then at about 7:00.  He gets a diaper change before those feedings, but he would sleep all night in  a wet or poopy diaper if we would let him.  They just don’t bother him.  But I don’t want his new little tushie to get a rash so he gets changed, which gets him awake enough to eat a good bit.  I hope he gets tired of cluster feeding soon.  He will nurse for about 5 minutes, get tired and stop, then I burp him and he wants more five minutes later.  Hopefully he will settle into a more regular schedule soon, but I’m not going to force it or not feed him when I know he’s hungry just for the sake of getting him on a schedule that is convenient for me.  He’s just a widdle man, after all.

We were discharged from the hospital on Monday.  We could have stayed the extra day, but I missed Cole so much and was very anxious to get back home to him.  Zac (yes, that is the Mister's name, I'm tired of having to change it) had to run to the office on Monday morning to open up and get things going, and he dropped by the house and picked Cole up to bring him to the hospital so we could go home as a family of four.  Cole has been a little hot and cold when it comes to Cannon.  When the  put the infant carrier in the car, Cole looked over at it and said, “I don’t wanna sit next to him!”  But his dismay didn’t last long, because he was asleep before we even got on the interstate.  And he doesn’t know this, but while he was asleep at home we got some cute pictures of our boys snuggling together.

Zac took Cole back to school on Thursday and called to let me know that it went very well.  He said that when Cole walked in the door all the other children went crazy, shouting “Hey Coley!”  And then Cole sat down on the floor and they all jumped on him and gave him hugs.  His best buddy Benjamin snuck up behind him and poked him in the back, and Cole turned around with a big grin and said, “you got me!”  Oh, how I love that boy.

It’s funny, I have loved Cole more than life itself for the past 27 months.  Most parents worry about having to share their love between two children or loving their older child less now that there is a second baby.  The instant I laid eyes on Cannon I loved him just as much as I love Cole.  And if anything, having two children has made me love Cole even MORE.  Seeing him as a big brother, hearing him tell Cannon that he loves him or giving him a kiss on the head, or asking “what’s wrong?” when Cannon cries and saying “don’t cry, Baby Brother” to comfort him really makes my heart swell.  Cole is such a sweet boy who is taking this major change in his life in stride and adapting very well.  Now that we have Cannon at home Cole is really starting to enjoy him.  He talks to him and loves on him and has been such a sweetheart this past week.  Zac and I have both made sure to give Cole extra attention and love and hugs and kisses so that he knows that he is not taking a backseat to this new baby in the house.

Let’s talk about me for a few minutes.  As you read in a previous entry I had a repeat C-section after going into labor naturally on Friday, September 16.  The surgery was again very textbook and non-emergency, and the same doctor who had been with me all day was still on to perform the surgery.  My body is evidently just not meant to push out babies.  I’m very good at being pregnant and carrying them, but pushing them out is just not in the cards for me.  Which is fine, I will just birth any future babies (if there are any) by C-section instead of attempting to birth them vaginally.  Since I didn’t labor for two days prior to this C-section, I went into it in a much better mindframe and was excited to head into the operating room instead of scared.  The C-section was familiar territory for me, so we were both confident in our decision and happy to be meeting our baby.  My anesthesia had been very good all day, allowing me to feel what was going on without having to deal with the pain (except when I discovered that my epidural pump line had somehow become clamped off, therefore not allowing any of the medicine to get into my system until I discovered the clamp and released it).  The anesthesia for the C-section was very much the same.  Instead of being numb from the chest down, this time I was numb from about my belly button down.  So I didn’t feel any pain from the incision or anything like that, but I could feel when the surgical assistant pushed on my upper abdomen to help get the baby out and I could feel the baby leaving my abdominal cavity.  Cannon came out screaming and pinked up very quickly.  We were so surprised to see that full head of hair!  I got stitched up and right into the recovery area.  They put me in the recovery area right next to where they do the baby’s initial checks, so I got to see all of that fun stuff this time and I got my baby in my arms in record time.  He nursed very well right away and I got to hold him on the bed while we were being taken to our regular room.  Zac pushed the button to play the lullaby throughout the hospital that lets everyone know that a new baby has been born, and we were on our way.

My recovery has been much faster this time around.  I was up and walking around on my own much sooner than last time, and I’ve just felt all around better.  I’ve been out of the house a couple of times on outings, and tomorrow we are going to take Cole to the park if the weather is nice.  I have been taking my Ibuprofen regularly, but I think I have weaned myself off the Percoset since my pain level hasn’t been that bad.  I reserve the right to take it again if I overdo it, though.  :)  My milk came in earlier this week and Cannon has been eating like a king.  I will be happy when my supply regulates and I’m not constantly worried about engorgement and leakage.  It didn’t take too long for things to get under control with Cole, so hopefully after another week or so Cannon will get himself on a more regular eating pattern and things will settle down inside mah bewbies.  I can’t wait for Cannon to start getting chubby like his big brother was.  I love little fat babies!

Okay, I guess is enough for one entry.  Here are a few more pictures of our newest addition!

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Welcome to the world, little one!

I'd like you introduce you to our son, Cannon James.  He was born on September 16, 2011 at 10:40 p.m., via repeat C-section.  He weighed 8 pounds 14 ounces (the same as his big brother Cole), and was 21 1/4 inches long (1/4 inch longer than Cole).

 

As you can see, he is absolutely beautiful.  Just as handsome as big brother Cole was when he was born.  They actually look remarkably similar when Cannon gets certain expressions on his face.  Cole isn't sure quite what to think about his little brother just yet.  He knows that he is "Baby Brother Cannon James", but I'm not sure that he is associating the baby with my formerly huge belly yet.  Cole came up here yesterday to meet his brother, and he would talk to him and smile, but didn't want to hold or touch him.  He just looked uncomfortable with the idea, so we let it alone.  He'll come around when he's ready.  Perhaps we can get that cute toddler holding baby picture today.  :)

Daddy has stepped out to the store for a few things , so I think I'll take advantage of the alone time by taking a nap.  The grandmothers will be here with Cole in a bit and I won't get the chance again until this evening.  Have a great Sunday!

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This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-18

  • New post: This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-11 http://t.co/0ABBV2b #
  • This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-11 http://t.co/usBtk2d #
  • I will never forget 9/11. I will not live in fear, but in faith that good can and has come out of such a tragedy. #
  • I hope Sammy enjoys his first official day as an outside cat again. He had fun outside all weekend, so he should do well. #
  • By this time next week, one way or the other, I will be holding my baby boy in my arms. We all can't wait to meet our newest family member! #
  • The Porsche Panamera is a ridiculous-looking vehicle. #
  • Five days until BAYBEH DAY!!! #
  • I am now more pregnant than I have ever been. #
  • Four days! I'm suddenly realizing that I have a lot to do around the house before Monday. #
  • Can I PLEEEAAAASE win this $500 Apple gift card??! http://t.co/5ukTxypF #
  • The progrock people are out. Good people-watching. #
  • Well, I think we might be having a baby today. #
  • Arriving at hospital. Contractions steady. #
  • About to get the IV. Suck. #
  • I really want to get off these monitors so I can get up and walk around. #
  • @ColeEmmett Looks like it! All systems appear to be go. #
  • I know the doctor is going to break my water soon, and I'm dreading it. #
  • 8 hours later, I think I might want that epidural. Only if I'm at least 5cm, though. #
  • A little Fentanyl to take the edge off. I'm only at 3cm and baby's still high, so no water breakage right now. #
  • My mistake, I shall CHOOSE Epidural for $400, Alex. #
  • Judge if you want, but come talk to me after 10 hours of back labor. #gimmedrugs #
  • I could kiss my anesthesiologist right on the mouth. #
  • Oh, after being in labor for nearly 24 hrs, I'm still at 2-3 cm and -3 station. If no further progress at next check, off to surgery!! #
  • I'm excited to meet this baby tonight, but I'm going to miss being pregnant. I love it, and this might be the last time. :( #
  • Well, my water broke during the last check. So we're going to keep laboring for a bit! #
  • Still here. Waiting on the next check to decide how to proceed. #
  • C-section time! Gonna meet our baby so soon! I'M SO FREAKING EXCITED!!! #
  • Introducing Cannon James. 8 lb 14 oz of pure perfection. We are so in love. http://t.co/VExwcRyJ #
  • Cath is out, leg compressors are off. If I can get this epidural line out, I can have a real breakfast and, more importantly, PERCOSET!!! #
  • Hm. I think I will go back to my nap now. #

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39 Weeks. And a baby. Wait, WHAT?!

This post was written on Friday, September 16, but never posted.  I've backdated it, as it is now Sunday.  We've kind of had a lot going on.  :)  

Well, it is now Friday night, which means I am 39 weeks and 4 days pregnant.  What you may or may not know is that this is as pregnant as I’m going to be.  I am currently in the hospital in active labor, but thanks to the magic of modern medicine I am able to feel minimal pain and update the ol’ blog one last time before Baby Brother makes his grand entrance.

It all started yesterday, probably while I was at work and telling everyone that the pains I was experiencing were nothing more than Baby Brother being in some sort of funky position.  It wasn’t until I got in the car to go home that I thought that I might be having contractions.  They were spaced pretty far apart and not very intense, so I chalked them up to Braxton Hicks and we went on about our evening.  I wanted a steak for dinner, so we used a gift card at California Dreaming and had a wonderful dinner.  I’ve been daydreaming about the carton of leftovers all day.  Anyway, more little stuff throughout the night, but nothing severe.  I went to bed and slept okay, but noticed whenever I woke up to use the bathroom or reposition myself that I would have a small contraction.  At around 5:30, I woke up for good because I could no longer lie still through the pain.  I got up and went downstairs to eat some breakfast just in case (and I’m so glad I did) and clean up the kitchen, again, just in case.

All this time, my contractions were getting more intense and closer together, and I was feeling it a lot in my back.  When they were about 4 minutes apart and lasting 30-45 seconds, I went upstairs and told the Mister that we needed to start getting ready to go to the hospital.  So he got Cole a little bag ready, put a few more things in a bag for us, and got Cole dressed and took him to school.  While they were gone I ran a mop over the bathroom floor and sat down to use the bathroom.  When I was done I noticed that I had lost some of my mucus plug.  So I called the Mister and told him to hurry home, and when we got home we were on our way.

We checked in at Piedmont around 9:00 (stupid Atlanta rush hour traffic).  They got me all set up in a room and at my first check, I was at 2cm and 50% effaced.  Not too bad.  I labored for a few hours and at next check at 1pm, I was still at 2-3cm and 50% effaced, and baby was at a -3 station (really high, in other words).  We decided to try to labor some more after talking with my OB about our chances of a successful VBAC since I was obviously having a lot of trouble progressing (the same reason I had a C-section with Cole).  During the next couple of hours my contractions were increasing in intensity and I was experiencing a LOT of back labor.  I bounced on the birthing ball for awhile and walked around to see if I could get the baby to drop a little.  After a half hour on the ball I got back onto the bed.  Five minutes later the rest of my mucus plug came out.  Talk about gross, that was gross.  The pain really kicked up after that, so at 5pm, after 10 hours of back labor, I requested an epidural.  I could have kissed the anesthesiologist right on the mouth.  I was able to rest after that and felt pretty good.

The next check had me at about 3cm and 90% effaced.  The doctor and I were debating artificially breaking my water as she was performing the internal, and lo and behold, there went the bag of waters on its own (well, with an incidental poke from the doctor).  She noticed a slight bit of meconium in the fluid, so there is a NICU team on standby for whatever happens.  I went from a 3 to a 4 immediately, so we decided to give it a couple more hours to see what happens.

At last check, around 9pm, I was only at 5cm.  Since  I am progressing, I requested one more hour.  If at the next check I haven’t progressed far enough, we will go to the OR for a C-section.  Since there is the meconium issue, they would like to move on the side of caution and not really wait around any longer to get him out.  And I am perfectly fine with that.  We were ready to move forward with the C-section at 5pm, but decided to see if the epidural would help me relax and dilate more.  And then we were ready to go for the C-section at the next check when my water broke and we decided to give it some more time.  And then I decided to give it one more hour.  If nothing has gone on in this hour, I’m just going to take it as a sign that I should go forward with the C-section.  I obviously like being pregnant so much that my body does not want to relinquish the baby.  So we will go in and get him!

One way or the other, we will be meeting our baby tonight!  I’m so excited.  I was absolutely not expecting to even go into labor on my own.  I had so much to do at work today and so many plans for this weekend, so of course that earned me a fast pass to L&D.  But I’m so happy to be meeting this little guy tonight.  I’m also STARVING and can’t wait to get some Jello afterward.  ANYTHING in my stomach would be amazing right about now.  :)

So in 10 minutes we will know which direction we will be taking.  Please pray for us and the doctor, whether she be helping me deliver vaginally or performing the C-section.  I’m very grateful to have been given the opportunity to attempt a VBAC, but at this point the safety and well-being of my baby are my main focus.

Wish me luck!

ETA:  I went in for the C-section Friday night and Cannon James Burks was born at 10:40 p.m.!  Another post is forthcoming, but we are so smitten with our newest family member!

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This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-11

  • I've had my own domain for over a year and still haven't broken 100 followers. I suck at this blogging thing. #
  • @AndreaStanley Good man. Keep him. :) #
  • New post: 3 Day Potty Training: Day 1. http://t.co/icgx4f3 #
  • I would kill someone for a cherry limeade right about now. But not the person who brings me a cherry limeade. Value your life? GET TO IT. #
  • 3 Day Potty Training: Day 1. http://t.co/bMHMBwB #
  • New post: This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-04 http://t.co/BcqSsCJ #
  • This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-04 http://t.co/LR42DYo #
  • Watching the Georgia/Boise St. recap. Georgia players look like a bunch of used feminine products running around on the field. #
  • So far, half an accident and two intentional pees in the potty. That's good, right? #3DPT #
  • Five intentional potty visits, one half accident. Much better than yesterday. Fingers crossed that this actually works. #
  • Oh my Lord, if this kid does not go to sleep soon I might cry. #
  • My hip joints are so loose, turning over in bed is excruciating. Two more weeks at most. Two more weeks, two more weeks... #
  • 3 Day Potty Training: Day 1. - http://t.co/icgx4f3 #
  • New post: 3 Day Potty Training: Day 2. http://t.co/hdcVn33 #
  • Closing in on naptime and not one accident yet. Could this method be the real deal??? #
  • Aaaaand we have an intentional poop on the potty. Holy crap. #punintended #
  • So is sudden and extreme intolerance of heat a sign that labor is near? Because I'm about to die of heat stroke and it's 77 degrees. #
  • Naptime makes me want to die. #
  • Finally asleep. Maybe he's good for an hour nap at least. #
  • 3 Day Potty Training: Day 2. http://t.co/p6q6lui #
  • Are all my Alabama people okay? It appears that there is some nasty weather over there. #
  • Ahhh. Makes a 38 weeks pregnant woman very happy. http://t.co/4ipTgA3 #
  • Just got an email from the What To Expect casting agent. Maybe they'll put me in the movie! Love scene with Joe Manganiello, please! #
  • 1cm, 50% effaced. Baby is in position, and est. weight is 7 lb 13 oz. Systems still go for a VBAC attempt if I can get things moving. #
  • COLE HAD ZERO ACCIDENTS AT SCHOOL TODAY. Same underpants all day. Best. Day. EVER. #
  • Got an even earlier start this morning. Let's see how it goes. #
  • Just saw a bald man furiously brushing his head in the car. What's that about? #
  • It's on like Donkey Kong. http://t.co/WvMk7Y3 #
  • Just saw a grown man with a rear window filled with stuffed animals. What's that about? #
  • Know who I hate more than people who cut in the exit lane at the last second in heavy traffic? THE PEOPLE WHO LET THEM CUT IN. #
  • New post: 3 Day Potty Training: Day 3. http://t.co/1EmBBML #
  • @ourarmswideopen We spent our honeymoon in Mexico, and I rode with my eyes closed every time we took a taxi! #
  • 3 Day Potty Training: Day 3. http://t.co/MvP6Zfx #
  • No accidents again! I am nothing short of amazed and thrilled with the 3 Day Potty Training Method. #
  • Perfect temperature for a quick mile at the track while the boys play soccer. #
  • Another bald guy brushing his hair. At least this one had a cul-de-sac. #
  • So, what do we think: baby this weekend? I'm thinking no. #
  • What perfect timing! Having a baby in the next few days, and our anniversary is on 10/2! http://t.co/hmljzQn #
  • Zac found my Zurichs deeply buried under the bed!! Oh calloo callay oh happy day!!! #birkenstock #youmightbealesbianif #
  • Anyone have a pattern for an infant car seat arm pad? #

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3 Day Potty Training: Day 3.

Day 3 of Three Day Potty Training went, in a word, AWESOME. Cole didn’t have any accidents until the very very end of the day, and it was just a little dribble on the way to the potty. I barely count that. AND! He went poop on the potty! We were both so proud of him for going ALL DAY with no accidents.

Yesterday morning it was back to school and back to work. We struggled with what we should do regarding Cole’s underpants: should we put him in a pull-up? Should we put him in big boy underpants? How much did we truly believe that he could go all day without an accident at school? He woke up with a basically dry diaper yesterday morning. Do we chance it, or do we stay with the safe option? At the last minute, the Mister decided to put him in a pair of underpants and we would just hope for the best. We sent him with a supply of clean underpants, and he had spare pants and diapers at school should our experiment go drastically, dreadfully, horribly wrong. All day I worried about my boy and how he would do in his big boy underpants. Well, I got a call from the Mister on the way home from work after he picked Cole up, and he had ZERO accidents at school!! Came home in the same pair of DRY big boy underpants and the same shorts as he left the house in that morning! Of course we both had a fit over him and this huge accomplishment, and I promised him I would bring home a treat from the grocery store. I brought home some ice cream and chocolate syrup, a treat we could all enjoy after making it through the 3 Day Potty Training.

We sent Cole to school again in underpants this morning (he wears a diaper during his nap though; no sense in tempting fate, right?). Depending on how the rest of this week goes, I just may be a full-fledged believer in the 3 Day Potty Training Method. Cole got really good at telling people when he needed to go potty and started making his way to the potty at the first sign that he has to go. Hardly any accidents for two days is pretty amazing for a 2-year old boy who just last week had only pooped on the potty once (accidentally) and peed in a urinal at the mall. I hope and pray that he does as well today at school.

If the training sticks and Cole continues to do well with using the potty, then I will definitely say that three days stuck in the house running back and forth to a tiny potty was totally and completely worth it. Heck, even if he regresses a little after the baby comes, it will still have been worth it. He has shown us that he CAN and is ABLE to communicate his need to use the bathroom, and he can hold it in until we get to the potty. This is huge for such a young little boy. We are both just so proud of how quickly he caught on to the whole potty idea. It will definitely be a test when we start to travel again after the baby is born, but that won’t be until Thanksgiving (unless we decide to try a football game in late October or early November), so maybe he will be even more accustomed to using the potty. Then that begs the question: do we bring a small potty in the car with us or do we put him in a pull-up for trips? The decisions, they are neverending!

But anyway, long story short: 3 Day Potty Training works (so far). And Cole is awesome. But you already knew that.

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3 Day Potty Training: Day 2.

Day 2 (yesterday) went much better than Day 1!  We only had two and a half accidents and many many pees in the potty.  And two of the accidents actually finished up in the potty.  Good job, Cole!  We only went through three pairs of underpants as opposed to the thousands (okay, more like ten) on Saturday.

Cole is getting better with telling us verbally that he needs to go pee on the potty instead of just holding onto his undercarriage or crossing his legs.  This is great for me because in all my 38 weeks pregnant glory, I am prone to closing my eyes "for just a minute" and waking up a half hour later.  So whenever I heard that little "Mommy, I need to pee pee!" I was able to jump up and help him to the potty.

Some variations we are doing on the 3DPT that might get me side-eyed: we are still doing pull-ups for naps and overnight.  Right now my focus is getting him daytime trained for pee and poop.  I will consider that a big success.  I can worry about nighttime and naps when he starts waking up fairly dry.  I'm sure I'll be up early enough on maternity leave to check him first thing in the morning and take him to the potty.  Cole also went poop in his pull-up yesterday, which I'm fine with because he hadn't pooped in two days.  Hopefully he will make a poop in the potty today and start to get comfortable with that.  I also brought his potty downstairs into the living room instead of leaving it in the bathroom.  He still has to run to it because I'm not having him sit on the potty all day long, but we live in a split-level so our two usable bathrooms are both upstairs and the downstairs bathroom is broken right now.  And just like I'm in no shape to be stripping beds and changing sheets twice a day, I'm also in no shape to be running up and down a set of stairs every ten minutes (although that might help get labor started...).  So I put the potty downstairs so we can get to it easily and not have accidents because Mommy is too slow to lumber her fat butt up the stairs in time.

I think the potty training is starting to affect Cole's sleep, unfortunately.  Last night it took nearly two hours to get him to sleep, and he woke up soon after and climbed in the bed with us.  Boo.  I did enjoy the snuggles, though.  I don't get to snuggle him as much as I used to so I will jump on any chance I get.  A nearly three-hour nap fairly late in the afternoon might have been the culprit to the poor night sleeping, though.  Today we'll cut the nap by about half and see if that helps tonight.

Day 3 is currently going well.  We've been up since around 7:30 and had no accidents.  He's still in the same pair of underpants I put him in this morning.  I know its only been two and a half hours, but he's gone pee pee in the potty about five times and will walk over to it himself and start to pull his underpants down (he needs a bit of help with this part because he has a round little bubble butt and the band gets caught) and then he will go on the potty without any prompting.  I'd call that progress.  Look for another update either tonight or in the morning!

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This Week at the House of Burks 2011-09-04

  • WHY DO BRAIN FREEZES SUCK SO BAD?!?! #
  • New post: This Week at the House of Burks 2011-08-28 http://t.co/H9pnLxt #
  • This Week at the House of Burks 2011-08-28 http://t.co/iU1Ubzp #
  • Thank-you notes done. This is definitely a new record for me. #
  • I hope it's not jumbo shrimp because I'm allergic to oxymorons. #WHAS #
  • @Alena29 Down To F###. Curse you, Jersey Shore. #
  • I'm so going to miss Cole being our one and only. I'm excited about the baby, don't get me wrong. But it's definitely bittersweet. #
  • Off to wash the car. By hand. Weird nesting strikes again. #
  • Nothing like being woken up at 5am by a toddler in the hallway shouting "I WANT TO GO DOWNSTAIRS!" Thank God for baby gates. #
  • Ah, Mt. Dew. The Kentucky meth addict's beverage of choice. How do people drink this stuff? I really wish I liked coffee. #
  • New post: 37 Weeks = Full Term, Baby! http://t.co/udMIVAM #
  • I'M HAVING A BABY THIS MONTH!!! #
  • I think I'm being Single White Female-d. Beware of stilettos. #
  • Why does traffic hate me? #
  • New bedding purchased. That's all we needed. This baby is welcome to come any time after Monday. #
  • Cole was so excited for both of us to pick him up from school. On the way home he kept saying "Mommy and Daddy! Mommy and Daddy!" So cute. #
  • Baby Brother's room is all ready for him! http://t.co/wEPGlkP #
  • There is a giant grasshopper in the kitchen. I am hiding from it in the bedroom. Hopefully the cat will get him. #
  • Happy football! Commence potty training boot camp. #
  • War Eagle anyway! The worst part about an Auburn loss is having to deal with my husband for the rest of the day. Why I don't like day games. #

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3 Day Potty Training: Day 1.

Well, it went about like I had expected.  Lots of pee, about half of it in the potty, and about half of it in Cole's underpants.

By the way, toddlers in underpants?  NOTHING CUTER.

Anyway.  He did fairly well, but really lost interest toward the end of the day.  The Mister was focused on football for most of the day so it was hard to tag-team, so there were some accidents that probably could have been prevented.  He did great this morning, but I think naptime threw him off.  I committed the cardinal sin of the 3 Day Potty Training Method and put Cole in a pull-up for his nap.  He's also in a pull-up now in bed.  I am just in no shape to be stripping beds and changing sheets every nap and overnight.  I'm not sure if that confused him or if he was just over having to tell us when he needed to pee, but by about 7:00 he was DONE and ready to get in the bath.

I did manage to get Cole to go pee on the potty one more time before getting in bed, so there's that.  I harbor no delusions that he is going to wake up dry in the morning, though.  Hence the pull-up.  I'm not sure if he is entirely ready for this whole process, but I figure it was worth a try since we have the three-day holiday weekend and no plans to speak of.

We didn't have to deal with any poop today, which I guess is a good thing?  He sure had a lot of farts this evening that I was certain were going to turn into poop, but none materialized.  I'm not sure if he didn't want to poop because he just didn't have to, or because he didn't want to do it in the potty and wanted to go in a diaper/pull-up.  I imagine it would feel very strange to go poop in the potty after only going in a diaper for over two years.  But he's done it before (inadvertently), so hopefully he will be able to do it again.  I just don't want him to hold in his poop and it make him sick or hurt his little tummy.

Am I crazy for trying this?  He just turned two in June, and they say boys are slower to potty train than girls.  I know the book says that 22 months is the ideal age to start potty training, which he is well past.  But he still seems so young.  I guess theoretically he is ready.  He can communicate with us very well about what he wants.  We just need to get him to be able to better communicate with us when he has the urge to go potty so we can get him there in time.  And he was able to do that several times today.  Consistency will be what makes or breaks this weekend for us.  But if at the end of the weekend things still haven't improved and I feel he's just not ready, then I won't really have any problems with putting it off for another month or two.  I guess I just thought that we may as well try it now before the baby is born and see how it goes.  Maybe tomorrow will be better.  Maybe with no college football to distract us from the task at hand, we can get better at reading his cues and catching him before he has an accident.

But in better news, he has been sleeping better in his big boy bed.  He slept all night in it Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday.  He's woken up in the middle of the night a couple of times, but overall he is getting more comfortable with sleeping in there and getting up and down from the bed.  He gets down and can let himself into our room when he wakes up, which I appreciate because I don't have to get out of the bed to go get him.  :)  It's the little things.

Okay, end rambling.

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